Do we look for solutions?

Life doesn’t necessarily give you what you want, rather mostly it gives you what u don’t want or expect.
We say we can always make a choice; there is help available then what stops us from making the right choice and getting out of the mess…
Why we lack the courage to do the right thing.

This was Namita’s second marriage, she was cheated in her first marriage, she got married to an impotent. She got out of it. She was still positive, she thought life has doen her part and now things won’t go that bad.
She married having hopes to a guy who promised her love and security.
And that’s all he coudnt give her, he was a frustrated soul who could not do well as a human, as a male, as a professional, health wise…
He married because he found solace in accepting her. Her failure was his trimph.
His only source of relief was the power centre he had over Namita, abusing her, beating her at times…

Namita suffered for 10 years for their only son but then what was the objective?
She was not having a good married life, she was not giving her child the atmosphere to grow, constant pressure of when the guy might beat her up.

She was educated but she was scared to break the marriage again – scared of society when the society was least bothered of her, thinking that she wont be able to survive as a single lady—she was dieing everyday though, she needed financial security but on what cost --her life? her child’s stunted growth?

She finds herself as a failure because society believes she must be wrong if two of her marriages are not working out.

Why haven’t we brought up with the fact that we are independent, we always have to refer ourself to something, somebody…
What insecurities we have that makes us bear so much?

Why don’t we look for any answers instead living with it.